Solomon Buchi’s recent claim that comparing one’s partner to others can quickly lead to unhappiness has ignited a lively debate.

He argues that such comparisons often involve contrasting the entirety of someone else’s relationship with the unique qualities of one’s own, making it an unfair comparison.

Many married couples encounter this issue, yet it remains largely unspoken.

In a daring assertion, Buchi proposes that unless one has lived with another person, it is impossible to accurately assess whether they surpass or fall short of one’s spouse.

This viewpoint raises questions about the criteria used for judgment and underscores the significance of firsthand experience in comprehending someone’s character.