Renowned relationship expert, life coach, and social commentator, Solomon Buchi, recently took to the X-platform to divulge a surprising personal anecdote prior to his marriage.
Buchi recounted being ghosted by a woman after embarking on a grueling 13-hour journey to meet her. In the pre-marriage phase, he engaged in lengthy conversations with several women, even going so far as to purchase gifts for them.
He bared his soul, explaining that he poured his heart into these relationships and ensured the women felt cared for. The emotional toll inflicted by these experiences left him traumatized, leading to difficulties in opening himself up to love. Nevertheless, he resolved to persevere in his pursuit of love.
Buchi also shared his motivation for revealing his story. He observed that many women often hesitate to go the extra mile for the men they love, fearing that their efforts will be in vain or disregarded. However, he stressed that genuine love should inspire willingness to undertake certain acts, irrespective of the potential outcomes.