A Nigerian man has shared a complex story revolving around the triangle of deceit and betrayal hovering around his relationship with his girlfriend.
In a message he sent to a relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, the guy said he found out that his girlfriend is cheating on him with the boyfriend of one of his side chics.
He mentioned that he wanted to satisfy his curiosity after suspecting her of infidelity so he went through his girlfriend’s phone and that was when he made the shocking discovery.
His full post reads:
“Please keep me anon.
My story is rather funny but I’m not really sad though I think it is one of those things in life. I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now. She is nice and hardworking, we have been good. Based on who I am, I still have other girls secretly. There is one of these side chicks, who happened to be my favorite, she has a boyfriend and she knew about my girl too.
She also complains about her boyfriend that she doesn’t really feel something for him blah blah bla but I’m just with her for the bedroom action, nothing else.
One day I saw a Facebook request from this same guy, and Facebook revealed we are both mutual friends of my girlfriend. I added him up, and I noticed he was always commenting and liking everything my girl post. Even as far as in other of her social handles and my girl would always reply. I became skeptical and kept my ears on the ground.
But I didn’t stop seeing my side chick and I never told her about her boyfriend’s social friendship with my girl. So one day i scooped through my girl’s ‘small’ phone and saw a message from a contact saved as ‘friend’ I believed she forgot to delete it. It read; ‘Cutie, can I see you this weekend once again? I quickly went to her sent message, where she replied ‘I can’t wait to come on Friday’.
I quickly search for the number on WhatsApp and behold it was the same guy, my side chick’s boyfriend. My blood pressure rose, I wanted to confront her but I couldn’t… Because she has caught me several things with girls and forgave me. I’m confused. I still love her.”